Friday, April 2, 2010

Don't Let It End Stop My Divorce

If you are going through that terrible time when your love feels like it is coming to an end and you find yourself pleading, "Someone, please stop my divorce!" you aren't alone. There are many who have gone through it and saved their marriage and plenty who didn't but found themselves happy again afterward. There are things that you can do to help stop a divorce or correct problems before they get to that point.


First realize, though, that as much as you may want to save your relationship you may not be able to. Make sure that you prepare yourself mentally for any possible outcome. This isn't thinking pessimistically, it is being realistic which is what you need to be.

Make use of family therapy or seek out marriage counselors. They have been well trained and have lots of experience helping people go through these times. Even if there is adultery involved, they will be able to help. Many marriages have been brought back from the edge because of counseling and therapy. They are accustomed to dealing with infidelity between spouses, depression, or any other things that stress a relationship to the point of divorce. Marriage counseling doesn't have to be expensive, there are plenty of good choices for you to use to get good relationship advice before you see a divorce lawyer.

One thing that you can learn not to do that may help stop your divorce before you ever get an attorney involved is don't argue. Arguing will only make the situation worse. You can try calling it reasoning or what ever but the truth is you are trying to force them to feel differently than they do. If you are serious and you want to "stop my divorce" then realize that your battle is against your separation, not your spouse. The more you argue with them and try to point out where they are wrong the more they will be wrong in your mind.

Don't try to defend yourself. You may be right, but don't try to convince them of that. Find the truth in their argument and agree with that. The more you can agree with the things they say, the more they will be right. This will only make them see that you are willing to do what you want them to do, see your side of the story. If you are willing to be honest and accept what they are trying to say then they will more likely be open to listening to your side. Marriage counseling is great at helping you understand how to communicate better if you really want to "stop my divorce."

This is only one part of the things that you can do to help when you are wanting someone to help you "stop my divorce". Quit talking about it and start acting on it. Your marriage will only have a chance to survive if you are willing to act.

Learn how to handle a breakup. T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Why should you agree with a break up in a hand written note

Are you thinking of sending out text messaget to get your ex back? No. Don't do it.

The difference stands out when you do it right. Don't rely on text messages, IMs and email to do such a thing.

Sending a HANDWRITTEN letter to your ex is MUCH more emotional and effective than sending 4 screens full of text message.

What does it means to you.

One of the most powerful things you can do to create a vacuum and have your ex possible pursue
you is to AGREE with a break up in a hand written note.

But be careful!

What you say in the note and how you say it can have positive or negative effects. For an outline of what to put in your note watch the video at The Magic of Making Up website.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

How can any guy, get the hottest women seducing HIM in minutes?

After your breakup, you might be considering looking for another partner. Can you get the hottest women to seduce you in a minutes?
Yes you can. I am really excited right now, and I can't wait to tell you why.

See, for the past two months, I've been going to this new website to check out all the videos he's been giving away.

These videos show his new method of attracting beautiful women, no matter what you look like.

The website is called Underground Seduction.

The Authors likes to say that using his personality techniques, it doesn't matter WHAT you look like, you can actually get any girl you want interested in you!

And the amazing thing is, they aren't that great looking of guys - but they has PROOF that they get amazingly attractive women all the time.

Seriously - some of these guys are fat and bald! But they're putting to shame all the "young player types." You really has to see it yourself to believe it.

Their philosophy is "it doesn't matter what you look like, you CAN get any woman you want."

To them, it doesn't matter if you're, Old, Fat, Bald, Short, Ugly, Whatever!

That is why I'm so excited. Because this new system of attracting women that these guys are sharing
is open for EVERYONE to use!

So weather you're good looking or below average, you can get the same results.

Now, they're releasing their course to the public, and they're giving away some great bonuses for a limited time.

So you're going to want to check out their new techniques here:

Underground Seduction

Finally, there is a method that puts every guy on the same playing field.

Honestly, I am FLOORED by some of the new stuff these guys are sharing in this course.

If you've ever struggled with getting a woman interested in you, then you simply MUST check out these techniques RIGHT NOW.

Just go here:

Underground Seduction

Put your breakup behind you and find that beautiful woman of yours.